Morning all, I hope it's not too late to add my experience to this thread.
First, let me say, BUILD A KIT! Really, it isn't difficult and what you will get will outperform commercial speakers costing many times more. If you have some basic diy skills you can do it.
I built my first kit in 1986 and it was a Wilmslow Audio design. I built another WA design a few years later (Allegro). Then in 2016 I built another WA design, the Rondo and it was pretty good. Then I discovered the Troels Gravesen website. Initially, I was put off by having to build the crossovers myself as I had no experience of electronics but one day I sat down with some of his crossover designs and figured out what was going on. That set me off on building several of his kits and I think it's eight now. See this link to my Flickr albums list where you can find soime pictures of the builds
https://www.flickr.com/photos/74614447@N02/albums/with/72157688475561724In my experience getting a good finish needs effort. I prefer veneer finishes and would recommend using construction grade, it's 1.5mm thick and much easier to work with than the standard 0.6mm veneer. However, there is a much larger range of the thinner veneers - see the SBA761 constructions with the beautiful pomelle sapele veneer.
I can't recommend highly enough building your own. It's great seeing them evolve and there's nothing like the moment you first power them up. Everyone who has heard the speakers I've built has been amazed at the sound quality obtained for the price of the kits. The Gravesen designs are excellent but there are others of which I have no experience.
It was my Illuinator 4's that just sold on this forum and I can tell you they easily compete with commercial designs at upto £50k. I listened to a number of expensive speakers at the 2019 Ascot show and, yes you'll say I'm biased (!), but I didn't hear any that sounded as good (PMC, KEF amongst other I can't remember). I'm sure the same applies to the other kits I built - in terms of value.
In summary, build a kit, you will not regret it and you save a lot of money. A kit costing upto £3k will be astonishingly good.