Most of us who are valve-heads have been through the 9-pin phase of experimenting and I suspect have reached similar conclusions. The designs are inherently decent but limited in some respects. Basically, there are small but significant differences, however, the hype and resulting prices for some variants are simply not warranted.
IME, there is nothing to beat NOS valves, but look for the less sought after types and you can do very nicely without blowing the budget. RCA, General Electric and some of the less obvious Holland-made types are worth a look.
It is always, always circuit dependent, but in general, for 12AU7 you'd struggle to do better than Mullard CV4003 and for 12AX7, Siemens or Telefunken. Just don't get pulled into the madness of paying £1000 for any 12xx7 variety. They aren't worth a tenth of that IMHO.